WHY BEING FRIEND ZONED HITS YOU HARD ?
- Aradhya Chaudhary

- Jul 3, 2022
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 10, 2022
I have seen the spirit of youth in trees but every evidence I peek gets vanished away when it comes to the practical world. The world now a days is so materialistic that we often get fooled by our own emotions. Henceforth we realize that we were the creators of our own tragedy. I am not talking today about anxiety, depression, irritable mind, self satisfaction or any kind of existing relationship. Today we gonna discuss about some materialistic shit that describes most of your emotions. Ego plays an aggressive role in one's life, most of the relations are finished or come to end due to this role play of our mind. The best of the best conclusions we can take from remote control side of our mind. Actually what happens, our mind transmits waves that are strong enough to handle a situation where a person is confused to take decisions. These waves conflict with other person's mindsets and make many contractions. This further develops the attraction and person feels that he/she is controlling the other person which in reality never happens, its all about selfish mind that is developing such illusions in mind. When the person realizes that things are going out of his/her control, the brain suddenly crashes into a dumb reality. Then the coordination of our emotions is at a highest downfall that makes a person irritated regularly. The memories, illusions hit our mind so hard that it becomes difficult for us to forget or accept the past. The contractions become so narrow that trust starts fading away and you are not willing to trust anyone anymore. It was always a game of emotions like I explained you in previous posts, Love is nothing but a transactions of emotions, the consumer makes a transaction of his desired emotions and use it to fulfill his/her demands. After it is all consumed, it is again transacted.
Remember always, you are the owner of your emotions and it depends upon your will power that how much you are capable of holding your emotions.
The weaker you are, stronger the transactions will be made.
Friendship is like a drug, the more you intake the more you want.
This world works on the policy of "give and take". Something you take, the nature automatically gives you something in return. Sometimes it will occur unknowingly and sometimes by just a request. In some cases their is something time based,
The things you wish that a person should do for you, may it happen after years of struggle or sometimes it occur by a co-incidence, all you have to do is have patience.
Dear Readers I have a short article for you here, this article is written to reach your mindset, whatever you desire from your friends you all will get in it, this article is sharable so you all can share with your friends if you want to keep your words in front of them,
You don.t have to 'force' yourself to reply to my texts or call me back just because you have to. Its okay, really. I have been understanding friend in our friendship, and I guess, I understand a simple fact now that friendship is an easy task to handle.
I hate that I require so much reassurance like things could be going perfectly fine, but there's always a part of my that believes all of it is a lie.
By the time I get comfortable with happiness, it leaves, the worst thing in the world is getting used to having your heart broken, instead of walking with your heart out on your sleeves, you keep it hidden, safe.
There is a voice in your head that keeps reminding you of how disappointment has been only constant in your life.
being an anxious person in love is like never being able to look away from the door because you know that the one person you love might just walk out of it.
People like me are used to lying alone in bed with an empty space by our side because were too scared of letting love stay.
We are so afraid of being hurt that when everything is good, we don't believe it. We pinch ourselves as if it all a dream, and by the time we realize it is not, we are alone again.
So, bear with me, please, I will take time to be vulnerable. I will hold on to your hand a little bit too tight. I will take time to be happy because I will be use to it. I will ask you a thousand times if you love me back and still not believe you because its not easy.
Its not easy for someone like me, to believe in things like love. I'll always be the broken part of myself and try to fix it until I forget about you.



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