Is romanticism has become a disability ?

The partners you choose for your own living are sometimes not your loved ones, they are only your extra limbs. You are not able to stand on your own so you need someone else to make you feel complete. "yes" these are your extra limbs and when limbs are not coordinated properly ; they tangle up at last.

One thing which is to be done is with enormous level of connecting with each other rather than using your emotions between it. Emotional feelings brings dependency.

Emotions is something to be enjoyed. These are your juice of life. You do not have to make your emotions work. "I think I am right ?" because you can make your thoughts work, you can make your brain work, you can make you body work but not the emotions.

Whenever you will try to make your emotions work, your situations will turn nasty.

Initially if we look into any relationship, the "I love you" works in most of the cases. And after sometimes you put your emotions at work...isn't funny but "yes" you make it do.

The harder you put them to work, the nastier your life becomes. Emotional feelings are just to sweeten your life. If you will try to extract some pleasures of life using your emotions, the life will turn ugly or even worst than before.

Then, it will take a turn to a nastier situation and among the people who used to care for each other's happiness. The nastiest situation do not take place among the enemies but among the so called loved ones.

So, if you try to extract out some moments from your life...you might have observed that people have their own opinions. They live a life full of opinions and suggestions.

The correct way to love is...if you love someone out of the way-you must not have opinions.

That's what love means. Love means you are trying to nurture another life without forming opinions.

For a moment imagine you are in love with someone or with your closest...and you are having strong opinions for each other. "No", that actually means you are trying to fix your life.

An opinion is the way of fixing a person into a straight jacket whereas love means nurturing someone's life into a new possibility. These two i.e. 'opinion' and 'love' cannot go in the same direction together. This can never happen. Of course you make judgments for your loved one to make your relationship better. So, you are actually rearing them to a next possibility which is beautiful than your present. The moment you make opinions on them, you will have no more interest in nurturing that life. What will be you doing is only fixing a life into a shell made up on your opinions and later on you will feel disappointed if it doesn't go according to you.

If you want to live with someone and that person resides in your prayers, you should stop making opinions. Try not to make your relationship based on opinions.

Love means being happy in what your partner's interest is...rather than trying to make a remorse on other side.